Wednesday, December 31, 2008

New Year Traditions

I don't make New Year's resolutions. I make my resolutions on any random day during the course of the year, when I feel like it, because that is when I actually put my mind to them and act upon them seriously.

But I do have some little New Year traditions, just like my little Christmas traditions.

Remember the days of Doordarshan, some twenty years ago, when they would put together an interesting, entertaining, variety show in which the likes of Jaspal Bhatti would make us make our way merrily into the new year? In those days, the entire family would curl up in front of the TV with a quilt and watch whatever was going on.

And then, out of nowhere, we grew up, began to find it rather boring to sit at home and watch TV with the family. I think the last time we did that, we watched an A. R. Rahman concert. After that, we preferred to be out, partying with friends.

And somewhere along the line, being with the family began to appeal to me once again. I go out with friends all the time. I also go out by myself. But I rarely, if at all, go out with my family any more. So I prefer spending occasions like birthdays, my parents' anniversary, Diwali, and New Year's, with the family. Because when I think about it, it's not too often that I actually make time to be with them. Sometimes, because of erratic work schedules, I don't talk to my brother for days together. Because it just doesn't happen that both of us are at home and are awake. Even if we are, at the end of a long day at work, all I want to do is eat, take a bath, and go to sleep. Sometimes, life passes us by so fast that we miss what really matters.

Have a great year, everyone.

5 comments:

kavita said...

The only thing I want to say for this blog is that you are very lucky that all 4 of u - uncle, aunty, ur bro and u are under the same roof right now. Hold it tight while it lasts :) I remember, when Karan moved to his hostel 3 years back... it was like I officially lost the child in me for the most part of it...

Bhavya said...

And now you're thousands of miles away from uncle, aunty and Karan... we learn to appreciate all this stuff much better when we miss it, don't we?

kavita said...

Absolutely :( Like all other good things in life... Its all in the mind. To be happy with what you have when you have it...

Prats said...

Bingo you touched a chord somewhere...
I guess a generation 15 years younger to us wouldn't even know how entertaining a new year was with Doordarshan

Bhavya said...

Prats:
Totally. That was a different day and age, a separate era all together